Saturday, January 1, 2011

The Beginning.. The mind of a Cyberpath

I find myself here on New Years Day posting my first blog in many years. 
 Today is the beginning of healing for me.  A New Year,  A New Life ready to unfold. 

 The only way I can move on, is to be able to share my story with the hopes that I can warn others of how  the Cyberpath's mind works...
So let us first begin by understanding what a True Cyberpath is and how they can con even the most educated and professional of Women in all walks of life.

TRAITS OF A CYBERPATH
  • The most important thing to remember is that a Cyberpath is a sociopath with a computer!!! 
  •  They are extremely intelligent in most cases, and are bored with women of less intelligence. They seek vulnerable women who may be going through a loss,  or life change and most of all has assets or money...  They thrive on the victory of taking down a woman of this status. 
  • As a Sociopath they are extremely Narcissistic.  Everything is about THEM.  No one else matters in the least.  Nor are they responsible for anything they do that is wrong.  It is always YOUR fault.
  • They want to merge with you as quickly as possible.  They are very impatient about waiting for very long and can't stand the thought of being without you.  The reason for this is because they want you living with them and under their spell before you find out everything they have told you is a lie.  They also want to be able to con you out of what ever money, credit cards, real estate, homes... you get the picture.  
  • They will shower you with love and affection as long as they think they can get something from you.  Once they realize that you will no longer give them money or help them with what ever it is they need... Things start getting ugly.  This is when you see the TRUE CYBERPATH rear his ugly head and you see the true Man for who he is   This can be very freighting as well as earth shattering to see this Man who thought you hung the moon, now treat you like yesterdays garbage.
  • Once you have realized you have been conned the act is over.  He will no longer want you around as he has likely got someone else lined up to be his next victim.  He will however make your life a living hell by doing what ever he can to hurt you.  Now that he has used you and abused you, he wants to stomp all over you and derives great pleasure doing so. 
  • Right now you can Google my name ( Jo Sparkles ) and up comes all kinds of horrible smut all courtesy of my Cyberpath who still has to feel he is in Control.   What he can't seem to get through his mind is that anyone reading it can see who my Cyberpath is.